Why do I attract this type of person?

If you asked any normal person I believe the ideal things they would want in a mate would be character, kindness, love, honesty and any other good thing that would sustain a relationship. I don't think anyone wants drama, emotional abuse, lewd behavior, or to be viewed as a piece of meat or do they? You wouldn't think anyone would want the latter but what do our choices tell us. I have heard so many singles young adults complain about what they seem to attract. Is it what you seem to attract or is it what you are willing to put up with!!! Its hard to sit and listen anymore  complaining because at some point you have to take some  responsibility for what you choose.

Recently I read a friend of mines page and it will remain anonymous for obvious reasons. In it she stated I get so tired of guys coming at me for sex. Hmmm lets see why? Well each and every picture you have left nothing to the imagine so what else was the guy left to think. If we would men and women be clear with what we want from a mate and not settle for less than that we would be so much better off. Less Drama and Less Hurt. A relationship is hard enough to make work with two people who agree and have a common focus so please take this advice. If you want respect act respectful. If you wanted to be looked at as decent present yourself decent. If you want a gentleman then be gentle. You get what you put out and you recieve what you allow.
Kenyetta Drain The Preacher Rapper and Singer.....